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Do you find me relationally attractive in a non-platonic way? Why or why not?

What's the most difficult/annoying aspect of our relationship?

What's the most rewarding aspect of our relationship?

How do you define our relationship to others?

What are your favorite sex acts/scenarios? (BONUS - talk about ones we've done together and ones you would be interested in us doing together)

What do you need or want from romantic/sexual relationships?

What relational romantic/sexual experiences/situations for you are no-go/traumatic/dealbreaky?

Do you have long-term intermittent sex partners ("comets")?

What does your sexual landscape look like right now, in terms of crushes, relationships, habits, proclivities?

Do you have any relational goals along the lines of types of partnerships, marriage, children, etc.?

How important are sex in general and sexual relationships to you?

For us specifically, how do you view the sexual aspect of our relationship?

Have I ever said or done anything that gave you genuine pause or disappointed you significantly?

Do you have any fears related to our relationship?

What do you think I want or get out of our relationship?

Is there anything about you, in general, that you wish that I knew or understood, and seems that I might not?

What would you imagine a more optimal relationship between us could look like? 

Which relationships in your life are the most important to you, and why?

Is there any relationship in your life you wish you could walk away from or cut off?

Are there relationships in your life you want to rekindle/repair?

Which formative experiences do you believe affect your relational abilities, and how?