Upendra

@upendra4335

Joined on Nov 7, 2022

  • There is no divine or divine justice. There is no sin or virtue. There is no hell or heaven. There are no universal truths. Religion is man-made for his convenience and comfort. Philosophies are formed based on individuals' experiences and their understanding of the world around them. Your experience of the world is limited if you hold onto your rigid philosophy or opinions. Be open-minded to fully experience the world and have a deeper connection with the world and people around you. No matter how great or bad a person is, everyone has the same value when they are dead. People who depend on others for happiness will put all their efforts and time into connecting with others. People who don't depend on others will work hard and improve their skills. Both have their pros and cons, and neither is inherently bad or good. It depends on a person's circumstances and life experiences. No rule fits everyone. Human emotions are natural, even the ones we consider bad, such as jealousy, greed, anger, lust, pride, prejudice, sadness, disappointment, and fear. Suppressing emotions only leads to an eventual outburst. We should let the emotions pass through us like a transparent mirror, not suppress them like a black body. Instead of forcibly suppressing emotions through mental conditioning, we should find the root cause and try to solve it. That's why journaling helps—it slows down thinking, provides structure, and clarity of thought. Some root causes cannot be solved, such as the death of a loved one. In such cases, we should allow ourselves to feel grief. The human brain has an advantage in that it forgets things over time. However, if we suppress grief, it accumulates in our subconscious memory and haunts us forever. Humans need happiness. It is the biggest driving force for them to do anything. So, it is important to find happiness in what we do or do what brings us joy. This does not mean turning to drugs or other addictions like social media, as they ultimately lead to overall misery. Instead, humans should find happiness in constructive things like work, exercise, relationships, and traveling. You can't be an expert at everything. Your time and knowledge are limited. These days, knowledge is freely available. What we need is the ability to ask questions to obtain the information we want and some critical thinking. These abilities come with introspection, clarity of thought, an uncluttered mind, keen observation, being realistic, open-minded, and having the ability to perceive others' true feelings. Movies, especially Indian movies, should not be seen as sources of learning or imitation. They are imaginative creations meant to entertain a wide audience and make profits. They often depict events and emotions that are far removed from reality. It is unwise to take movies seriously or allow them to influence one's perception, as they can lead to confusion and unrealistic expectations. While the modern world glorifies speed, it is important to recognize its dangers. Even experts can lose control when moving too fast. Therefore, it is essential to approach tasks in a slow, steady, and controlled manner. Take your time, as life is not a race. The brain functions biologically and requires dopamine. However, providing large amounts of dopamine in a short time span can lead to addiction and a diminished interest in anything other than that intense stimulation. Examples of such intense dopamine releases include drugs, video games, and high-speed races. There are also slower but equally addictive and destructive sources of dopamine, such as tabloid news and mindless browsing. It is important to avoid these negative influences. Engage in constructive activities that provide a healthy dose of dopamine, such as work, meaningful relationships, exercise, and fulfilling hobbies like reading, painting, singing, and dancing. However, maintaining a balance is crucial, as nothing is worth dedicating an entire lifetime to.
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  • Divide and rule When it comes to accomplishing tasks, goals, or any work, breaking them down into smaller, manageable chunks is the key to success. By focusing on completing these smaller pieces one by one, you can optimize your mind's performance. Each time you finish a small piece, you receive a sense of accomplishment, making the overall process more enjoyable. Consider the analogy of winning 10 lotteries, each worth 1 crore, every month consecutively. The happiness derived from winning them individually over time is greater than winning them all at once. Consistently achieving small victories surpasses the impact of a single significant success. 80:20 rule - from the dogma of perfectionism to the joy of realism 80% of any work can be done with less than 20% time and effort. This is what all you need for any typical work. 90% of work can be done in 90% of time and effort. This is required only for works that are very very critical. This kind of work is very very rare.
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  • During my time in school, an incident occurred in the 7th grade that left a lasting impression on me. It was the day when our English teacher decided to showcase our answer papers to the entire class while announcing the exam results. As fate would have it, my paper was chosen, but what followed was far from expected. My teacher called me up to the stage and proceeded to beat me on my back with a large stick, repeatedly striking me around 7 to 10 times until the stick broke. The reason? My answers were based on 'my' understanding of the subject but not exactly matching with the ones given in textbook, and most importantly my handwriting was deemed very bad. This incident raises an important question: how relevant are textbook knowldge and handwriting in the grand scheme of education to warrant such punishment? There are two fundamental issues at play here, which shed light on the flaws within our education system. Firstly, there is the issue of punishing students for skills that are becoming obsolete. The traditional school system has always placed a high value on memorization, given that information was predominantly sourced from human knowledge. However, in today's digital age, information is readily available at our fingertips through the vast expanse of the internet. This shift necessitates a change in priorities. What holds greater importance now is the development of analytical thinking and problem-solving abilities. Instead of mindlessly memorizing information, students should be encouraged to analyze and synthesize knowledge, preparing them for the challenges of the modern world. The second issue lies in the approach of instilling fear as a means of teaching. Learning through punishment inhibits true enjoyment of the process. When fear is the driving force behind education, it diminishes the intrinsic motivation to learn and stifles creativity. Learning should be a journey filled with curiosity, wonder, and love for acquiring knowledge. When approached with passion and enthusiasm, education becomes an empowering experience, fostering self-confidence and personal growth. Learning out of fear leads to self-doubt, while learning out of love instills confidence. It is essential to create an environment that nurtures a love for learning, where students are encouraged to explore their interests and develop a deep understanding of subjects that inspire them. By fostering a sense of joy and curiosity, education can become a transformative force, empowering students to unlock their full potential.
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  • [TOC] A Random dataframe Python Below code creates a random pandas dataframe with columns with all the data types. specify n=# for required sample size. This first creates a dictionary ddict which is supplied as 'data' to dataframe.
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