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# Relationship Needs    

### Support

I need words of encouragement and recognition.  Just a simple "hey, good job working out this week, you're kicking ass". Or "I'm proud of the way you were able to stop vaping". I definitely believe couples should build each other up and help provide confidence.

### Partnership

I need someone to do things with.  Beyond just the fun social outings.  I think it's important for couples to do things together. We don't enjoy the same activities to the same degree so we both have to put effort into doing things with the other person when we otherwise might prefer not to.

### Understanding

I need someone who understands that I deal with issues such as anxiety and insomnia as well as have an addictivie personality and fiery temper.  I'm always trying to improve and manage these things better but it's a battle I don't win every day.

### Passion / Ambition

I need someone who is passionate, about something or anything.  It's too easy for life to turn into a risk-adverse, boring stream of minimized negatives that passes by far to quickly.  Something should make us want to take chances and work hard toward the tremendous positives.  Carpe diem.

### Affection

I need physical contact; to be hugged, and kissed, and cuddled.  For many reasons I think this is important beyond just the happy times when everything is smooth in the relationship. 

### Shared Visions / Goals

I need someone who is working to get to the same place in life I am.  Financial independence, a meaningful and conformtable life, and a legacy to leave to the world when life has passed.