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# Voice lounge topics

## future topics for a future time

- cat hair vs glitter: which is the most annoying?


## currently suggested topics

- is there a need to pass first in order to fight society's imposed passing privilege?
- can trans people experience cis privilege? are cis people spoiled brats for not enjoying their cis privilege?


## forsaken topics
- How do transmascs experience sexism? How does experiencing being the victim of sexism relate to or effect dysphoria and euphoria?
- Can/should the term transmisogyny be applied to any of the prejudice that trans mascs experience?
- Is male privilege for trans mascs conditioned by having to pass first?
- What role do NB transmascs occupy in a patriarchal society?
- depending on how you'd describe your gender, what do you think (even if it's possibly incorrect) are visual and/or behavioral markers of the "opposite" gendered situation? this could be transmasc x transfem, cis male x cis female, bigender x agender, etc.
- depending on how you'd describe your gender, what do you think (even if it's possibly incorrect) is the hardest thing about being in the "opposite" gendered situation? this could be transmasc x transfem, cis male x cis female, bigender x agender, etc.
- how many transmasc people can you name/describe, and how did you come across learning of and/or meeting each of them, whether they're real or fictional?
- as far as taking up space and attention, do you think transmasc people should take up as much space post-transition as they did pre-transition, or that they should change that amount?
- why do you think transmascs leave voice servers so transiently? let's talk about that.
- is there common ground for trans masc and trans fem voice training?
- Is it ethical to leave the trans community after transition / starting to pass when not wanting to be outed by association?
- Unhealthy coping strategies that we used to have, or maybe still have, for our dysphoria?
- Gendered differences within specific accents. Some regional and national accents are really gender differentiated.
- Loli revolution. (๑˃ᴗ˂)ﻭ What about mascs? (・`ω´・)Ψ What's their hypermasc model/mindset? Should we take seriously only hypermasc/feminine speech? How to learn these? Would the world be a better place?
- Is it a good idea to experiment the extremes in range of gender related vocal features (possibly at expense of dysphoria)?
- Transition and grief. A common response to transition from family members, and sometimes the trans individual themselves, is a process of grieving for the trans person's assigned gender and the identity which goes along with it. What is going on here? What do we think are behind these feelings? Are these feelings valid, and should they be respected or rejected by the trans person who is the subject of them?
- do you feel a mental disconnect between the trans voice you're working on and the voice you use elsewhere?
- does your trans voice ever start to feel like your own?
- do you feel like you're "acting" when you  use your trans voice?
- if you could change reality so you were born as a cis person of your desired gender (if applicable), would you? why or why not?
- in what ways can comparing yourself to a person you idolize be helpful and harmful, and how can we set more realistic goals to mitigate some of these concerns?
- would it be ethical or unethical to magically give everyone on planet earth cat ears?
- Dysphoria affects the way you perceive your own voice and body... but does it ever affect the way you perceive other people?
- How easy do you find it to relate to trans people who identify with your assigned gender?
- job hunting while trans
- skills, interests and social expectations. What have you cultivated to be more like your affirmed / assigned gender? What do you wish you could do?
- masculine high pitch voice and sounding like an adult anyways
- is it a good idea to out yourself when fighting sexism
- do you want to see queer story movies be remade with actual queer actors? (eg: Brokeback Mountain, Blue Is the Warmest Colour, etc)
- is social media a good tool to advocate for trans rights? Or in person, local activism is better?
- Let's discuss. Brainstorm safe spaces to practice speaking with your new voice.
- How does trans voice training intersect with singing, and what are the challenges / opportunities of combining the two?
- People keep asking me if I'm going to hurt myself by practicing trans voice. Are there serious risks in trying to adjust your voice, perhaps in the absence of proper training or resources?
- Share stories about positive experiences people have had from practicing trans voice
- resources and strategies for a "nonbinary' voice. Swap between several affects? Choose an androgynous one? What are the most important components?
- Have you started paying more attention to the voices around you? What vocal techniques do average people use to present themselves?
- What sort of singing do you like? Do you necessarily want to sing like your favourite artist?
- Are pop singers making life difficult for trans women by using increasingly exaggerated fem voices over time?
- What is gender, and why is it so important?!
- Should cis people be forgiven for their many crimes?
- Is being trans itself an inherently radical act? Is it an act at all? If not, what about transness is radical?
- How could this server include more trans mascs, NBs, and trans POC?
- Does being neutral on any transphobia encourage it? e.g. the misgendering of a hypothetical trans Hitler / an awful trans criminal.
- Christian Santa versus Pagan Santa (Krampus, Nuuttipukki, Rare Exports Santa...) Is reward or punishment better for encouraging behaviour (incl. trans voice homework)?
- Is queer history essentially unknowable? Because it's often hidden and when not it's contested. Is it worth it researching queer history?
- Cis puberty vs. Transition: meaningfulness, easiness, worries, etc. 
- Mass testing of vaccines (or any medicine): is science inherently unethical?
- Emilia:heart:Lílian, do you ship it?
- Transition in a nutshell? https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/i-am-no-longer-a-child Or is puberty from transition full of surprises?
- Which is better? A passing voice which needs conscious focussed effort when speaking, or an androgynous voice that you barely need to think about?
- If transition meant you magically became a ten-year old physically, then had the right puberty, but everything else stayed the same (mortgage/student loan, not living at parents' place,...), is that better or worse than the current way to transition?
- Is there a problem with how the trans community treats detransitioners? Most of us can agree that many detransitioners are used (with or without their consent) to delegitamize the trans community, but what about individual detransitioners that are not transphobic that simply eventually realize that they aren't trans? Is the current discourse around detransition among trans people healthy or unhealthy?
- is there validity to excluding trans people from gender discussions?
- Does internal transphobia contribute to "de-transitioning" and does that inform other people's opinions and feed their transphobia as well?
- Who is the better Mandalorian? Boba, Jango or 'Mando'? (Is Star Wars too niche here?)
- Feet; what the hell, internet?
- is gender abolitionism transphobic?
- The 90's were pop music's best decade.
- Coups orchestrated by western people tend to be viewed as legitimate and for the good whether in their own country or abroad. Coups by non-westerners are the opposite. Is this biased or just a coincidence of westerners actually improving lives?
- Are consumers to blame for the climate crisis?
- Is it wrong to aim your transition based on someone who happens to propagate toxic behavior/ideology? E.g. for a trans man to idolise a cis man who's very toxic in some parts of life.
- How do you perceive your gender? How is different from how others perceive you in regards to your gender specifically, and how is it different from society's perception of your gender as a whole?
- This is clearly a huge victory for her, however, in the larger context of trans representation is this: good representation, bad representation, or fetishization? (or all of the above?)
- Homosexuality was completely removed from the ICD in 1990, do you think trans identity should have received the same treatment? Or do you agree that the change in the ICD-11 from a "mental disorder" to a "condition relating to sexual health" is an acceptable middle ground in depathologizing trans identity?
- Do you think that the consideration of trans identity as a disease psychiatric condition by the WHO has contributed positively to the implementation of transgender medical care in your country? Do you think it will continue to be essential, as the WHO claims? (In other words, do you think trans care would suffer negatively if the WHO ever removes it from the ICD?)
- The pathologization of transness has been undoubtedly damaging; however, do you think WHO's actions may be too little, too late? Do you believe that, for trans acceptance in society, the actions of the WHO hold no weight at this point in time, and trans activism will still need to do all the heavy lifting for it?
- Sarah McBride got elected to the Delaware Senate. Should senates, houses of representatives, parliaments, etc have minorities in proportion to their numbers in the population? Or are there too many minorities for that, in which case how to solve the issue?
- Is loneliness or gender dysphoria worse? (must pick one, assume solves the other)
- US elections. Starting topic: would it affect at all other countries and how?
- Is cis-trans a spectrum or a binary? Can cis people feel true gender dysphoria?
- Anarchy has some good sides compared to democracy.
- The LGBTQIA+ community is a conglomerate of groups with nothing in common but to be disenfranchised for what has historically been considered "behavioural deviance". Or is it more? Would this community survive in a future / alternate reality where we are all accepted and have the same rights?
- What kind of transmisogyny did you not expect to encounter? For transmasc people, what kind of transmasc specific prejudice did you not expect to encounter?
- Would you rather be rejected by a family member or get accepted AND get all the gender prejudice BS humanly possible
- Does sport help with dealing with gender dysphoria or make it worse?
- Once the trans revolution has been won and trans people have all the positions of power, should we get revenge on cis people?
- Should BMI limits be removed or be more flexible in the context of trans surgeries?
- Often young people have no interest in having kids later in life, but the opinion might change. Should reproductive cell freezing & storage be a requirement for starting HRT?
- Should structural discrimination be fought with positive discrimination (e.g. giving you points in job applications if you're part of a minority)?
- Twitter reacting to death wishes towards Trump but not to death threats towards women, lgbt people and minorities previously.
- How do you cope with/work around this?
- What is your vision for how these spaces can make room to allow for the comfortable existence of trans people?
- trans representation: differences country by country
- how are minorities within trans people represented within the community?
- trans voice biology???
- do you feel validated in using biological.
- do you NOT feel validated in using biological
- If societies had no or only one gender, how much would being trans matter?
- How much does knowing someone else's gender identity affect our perception of their voice?
- Does transgender experience especially enable ppl to speak to gender inequality at large (cis ppl's baggage included)?
- How much do we "learn" our gender?
- If there is baggage that we bring into transition? If so, how long does it take to experience your gender as a cis person does (if possible)?
- Can cis people truly understand trans people and vice versa, in good or in bad?
- trans surgeries: should insurance cover a fixed set of them, or should it cover anything you want up to a certain total of $$$?
- positivity: let's link or tell some positive or interesting trans related news / webcomics / stories / ... and talk about them.
- iphone or android
- if you could change one thing you did/didn't do in the past, what would that be? (besides "transitioning earlier")
- should HRT be available without prescription?
- doing voice drills in public and speaking less because :scream:, or speaking more but :no_drills: 
- is gendering always a (weak) form of sexualization


## chosen topics

- how can access to resources for transmascs (especially finding or creating resources online) be improved?
- What hormonal changes from T are the most widely misunderstood? (Mood swings? T doing ALL the voice work mythos)?
- imposter syndrome and trans identity. do you have it? did it go away? if so, what tips would you give to someone struggling with this issue
- How important is it to sound your own age?
- do you need to stick with one "main" voice, or is it possible to maintain more than one?
- the effect of voice training on mental health
- Is internal transphobia worse than external? If you can forgive yourself should you also forgive transphobic relatives?
- Are trans people allowed to have "traditonal" cisnormative ambitions? (eg. being a housewive / sole provider)
- Which is better, informed consent where the doctor barely has any experience with transition, or gatekeeping where the doctors are trans?
- Elliot Page, star of Umbrella , just came out as trans :trans_heart: Do high profile trans people help with the push for trans rights? Do they have an obligation to help?
- the ethics of crispr catgirls, good or bad?
- Is playing computer games good for mental health? (not just Animal Crossing)
- Appearing in the cover of a magazine targeted at straight men is undoubtedly gender affirming. It is no news that some consider that this very thought is misogynistic (internalized transmisogyny even; to be a woman is to be desired by men), and that such things contribute towards misogyny in society. Are we allowed to celebrate it regardless?
- Are trans (or lgbt) communities more friendly and open minded than communities where everybody is cishet?
- Do you think there should be more research on the biological/neuropsychological basis of transgender identity? Or do you feel this should be left alone?
- Trans people understand gender better and much more broadly than cis people. Or not?
- Binary trans people would always be better off if they were cis of the correct gender. Or not?
- Isn't the covid-19 pandemic perfect for transitioning? Stay-at-home orders = be in your chrysalis and emerge as the awesome you when it's all over!
- Pronoun introductions. When and where should or shouldn't these be used? (Creepy cis ppl doing them when there's only one trans person.)
- What are your experiences Existing While Trans in different spaces? (In different countries, in the LGBT community as a minority, in the closet, in the workplace, at the doctors office, in sports, etc)
- how to deal with someone who's voice passes but they don't think so?
- is it okay for cis people of the correct gender to act as trans in movies, theater, etc?
- does the government have any valid reasons to know its citizens gender?
- spectrogram or no spectrogram for voice practice
- should gender segregation be abolished in sports
