This part is undoubtedly the scariest for all the women who have never tried this what they consider to be a medieval item. Therefore, I'm going to use the next few paragraphs to explain to you exactly what a chastity cage is, what it's used for, and what I think about it. If I had written this article a few years ago, this section would look completely different. As we have progressed in the world of male chastity, my view of this object has changed dramatically.

Let's start with the term male chastity, which for many inexperienced women is a very offensive term. The first thing you should know is that male chastity in this game has nothing to do with real chastity or ancient religious rules, quite the opposite! There is nothing less chaste than male chastity, it is simply a sexual game of shared power exchange between two open-minded partners who are prepared to prolong their pleasure for a long time.

True chastity is about avoiding sexual contact, especially premarital penetration, and don't worry, it has nothing to do with the sex games mentioned on this site!

Orgasm control is sometimes a very intense activity lasting several days. Since a man is physiologically predisposed to ejaculate, it is sometimes difficult for him to have complete control over his hands when he is unsupervised. This is especially true if he has not ejaculated for several days and the pressure between his legs begins to get stronger. It is for this reason that chastity cages can be used.

Maybe at this moment you don't know what a chastity cage is. It is simply a small device made of metal, plastic or even silicone that is used to close the male sex organ and prevent him from getting an erection. The control to open this device is given exclusively to the woman who has the key to the man's pleasure, and she becomes the key holder.

The cage thus serves to prevent the man from utilizing solitary pleasure to satisfy himself in the absence of his partner. In this way, all of his sexual energy is necessarily directed toward his partner, or key holder. For humans, this is by no means barbaric or painful.

Of course, if the man in the cage begins to entertain erotic thoughts, the cage will quickly remind him of his presence. This is exactly what we want. The cage's presence constantly reminds him of his partner's control over his pleasure, orgasm, and erection rights. As a result, he will be thinking about sex multiple times a day (and night) and this little object will ensure that he is constantly reminded of his sexual arousal and desire. This is what the Orgasm Control Game aspires to, with the goal of keeping the man aroused at all times.

You should not think that the cage is a magical object, it has a lot of advantages, but it also brings challenges to everyday life. This is why it is important to always have good communication between partners so as not to allow sex games to have negative consequences in real life.

First of all, chastity cages have to be comfortable and the right size. This is why there are many customized chastity cages available online, and if you are serious about playing this game and want to prolong the frustration, a customized chastity cage is essential. However, this guide is designed for beginners and is meant to be an introduction to the world of male chastity.

As such, I recommend first purchasing an inexpensive cage on the internet. It will definitely take a period of getting used to and will have to be removed after a few hours or days at most, especially if the man is not used to wearing it. It is important to give the carrier of the cage time to get used to it and make sure it is comfortable.

If you think this game may be right for you in the long run, I can only suggest that you invest a few hundred dollars in a cage that is more comfortable and fits your partner's unique body type. Once the acclimatization period is over, you can comfortably wear it for as long as you need to.

It is important to realize that cages pose certain challenges in daily life. First and foremost is cleanliness; the cage must be removed regularly to ensure that the penis is kept clean and to check that the cage is not causing any irritation. Some women will remove the cage themselves to clean their partner's nether regions, others simply give him the key to the shower. It all depends on your view of the game, the stadium you are in and your desire to control your gender at all times.

Another challenge is the toilet, with a chastity cage he will soon realize he has to sit on the toilet to avoid getting dirty! This isn't a huge disadvantage at home, but it can become a much bigger problem in public places.

The most complex challenge around cages is playing sports or doing work that requires their removal for safety reasons. In this case, you have to find a system to release him in situations where his gender freedom is needed. Therefore, it is not always possible to have complete control over his penis. However, you must be realistic and understand that the realities of everyday life do not always allow you to maintain complete control over your sex! In these situations, communication and trust must be enhanced even more. I'll be writing a post about it soon and inserting the link here.

It's important to understand that male chastity is a game played with mutual consent. A man agrees to entrust control of his orgasms and erections to his partner. Contrary to what you may have read on many fantasy sites on the Internet, it is impossible to keep a man in a chastity cage without his permission. If he really wants to take her out, he'll find a way to make it happen in whatever cage he's locked in. Thus, the purpose of the cage is not to lock the lion in the cage and prevent him from getting out (if he really wants to). Rather, the cage is more of a reminder that serves as a deterrent to men. If the thought of masturbation comes to mind, the simple act of being locked in a cage will quickly bring him back to normal. However, if he really wants to take it off and masturbate, he will. The object is more of a motivator that can be used as a reminder when the desire is too strong. He will then choose not to break the cage and masturbate because he doesn't want the game to end.

The cage is a very effective reminder. Some key holders use sophisticated techniques to make sure their men don't remove the chastity cage without their knowledge and then carefully put it back. I find these techniques useless and they require an effort I don't want to make. Relationships should be based on trust, and the man in the cage is a man who recognizes that he has no control over his orgasms. If you need some technique to ensure that the cage isn't removed and reattached when you leave, then it's just a matter of trust (both for you and your partner).

Enough about the problems this item can cause, it's time to talk about the fun a cage can provide! It is very important not to <forget> that your man is in a cage for days without giving him erotic, sensual or sexual attention. Therefore, I suggest you refer to the previous section on teasing. A man in a chastity cage will be happy to be the victim of your teasing and will be very grateful when you go and play bitch with him. If he knows that you don't wear panties at work, you can be sure that his cock will utilize all the available space in his little cage! The cage has the effect of increasing arousal during erotic thoughts and making it easier to accept teasing.

The cage is also a very interesting object to use during teasing and denial. After reading the next section on teasing and denial, you will understand how interesting this object can be in the bedroom.

However, I would like to point out again that my views on chastity cages have changed considerably in recent years. At the beginning of our orgasm control game, we never used it. I found the thing useless and barbaric. This may be where you are now, and nothing forces you to use it. However, if you are open-minded and agree to use it, your opinion of the program will likely change quickly. In my case, using it for a couple weeks because he wanted to try it convinced me not to go back to cage-free orgasm control!

As mentioned earlier, some people will not always be able to wear a cage in their personal and professional lives for a variety of reasons. There is no reason why you can't practice cage-free orgasm control if you wish, however, there needs to be greater communication and trust in your relationship! However, in this case, I would recommend trying to wear the cage for short periods of time, lasting a few hours or a few days, if possible. This provides an interesting dynamic worth exploring.

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